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What do I need to recover from?

  • Being unclear about your financial situation.
  • Not knowing account balances, monthly expenses, loan interest rates, fees, fines, or contractual obligations.
  • Frequently “borrowing” items such as books, pens, or small amounts of money from friends and others, that you fail to return.
  • Poor saving habits. Not planning for taxes, retirement or other non-recurring but predictable items, and then feeling surprised when they come due; a “live for today, don’t worry about tomorrow” attitude.
  • Compulsive shopping. Being unable to pass up a “good deal”; making impulsive purchases; leaving price tags on clothes so they can be returned; not using items you’ve purchased.
  • Difficulty in meeting basic financial or personal obligations, and/or an inordinate sense of accomplishment when such obligations are met.
  • Experiencing a different feeling when buying things on credit than when paying cash: A feeling of being in the club, of being accepted, of being grown up.
  • Living in constant chaos and creating drama about money. Using one credit card to pay another; bouncing checks; always contending with financial crises.
  • A tendency to live on the edge. Living paycheck to paycheck; taking risks with health and car insurance; writing checks hoping money will appear to cover
    them.
  • Unwarranted inhibition and embarrassment when having a normal discussion about money.
  • Overworking or under-earning. Working extra hours to earn money to pay creditors; using time inefficiently; taking jobs below your skill and education
    level.
  • An unwillingness to care for and value yourself. Living in self-imposed deprivation; denying your basic needs in order to pay your creditors.
  • A feeling or hope that someone will take care of you, if necessary, so that you won’t really get into serious financial trouble; that there will always be someone you can turn to for rescue.

The Twelve Steps for Financial Recovery
1. We admitted we were powerless over our finances, spending addictions and compulsive behavior. And we admitted that our lives and finances
had become unmanageable.
2. We came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity, and stabilize our finances.
3. We made a decision to turn our life, our will and our finances over to the care of God.
4. We made a searching and fearless moral inventory of ourselves and our finances.
5. We admitted to ourselves, to God, and to another human being, the exact nature of our wrongs.
6. We are entirely ready to have God remove all these defects of character.
7. We humbly asked Him to remove all the shortcomings in our lives and finances.
8. We made a list of all persons we have harmed and became willing to make amends and financial restitution to them all.
9. We made direct amends and financial restitution to such people whenever possible, except when to do so would injure them or others.
10. We continued to take personal inventory of ourselves and our finances and when we were wrong, promptly admitted it.
11. We sought through prayer and meditation to improve our conscious contact with God, praying only for knowledge of His will for us and our finances and
the power to carry that out.
12. Having had a spiritual experience and financial freedom as the result of these steps, we tried to carry this message to others, and practice these principles in
all our affairs.


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"I am a Surrendered Believer in Jesus Christ with Free Will and I CHOSE Surrender (Intelligent Delegation) in my victory over, “Recreational Chemical Abuse, my weekend, "False Idols."
"I chose DIRECT health assertive Christ Driven Behavior (CDB) instead of DISPLACED behavior in order to regain control over feeling helpless, powerless, trapped and lacking control. I changed my, "Thinking," and God changed my life."
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There is no reason why anyone with any hurt, habit, or hang up cannot be helped. The Person-God partnership simply needs to be more powerful than any hurt, habit or hangup.

Behind everything you do is a THOUGHT.

Every BEHAVIOR is motivated by a BELIEF.

Every ACTION is prompted by an ATTITUDE.

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With respect to behavior, life is about, emotions, beliefs, thinking and control.

"A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back."Proverbs 29:11 (Displaced Behaviors)

"Do not be conformed by this world but instead by the renewing of your mind." Romans 12:2 (Direct Behavior)

When you think and empower yourself and surrender control to God, when you Intelligently Delegate Control to God (2 Corinthians 12:9-10),

God returns that control to you with a, “Helper," the Holy Spirit, (John 14:16) a form of Reciprocal Innervation.

You regain control: "the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.

No longer are you subject to corrupted displaced thinking but instead are transformed by the renewing of your mind (Romans 12:2).

This is where science and scripture intertwine, where Christ Driven Behavior brings, values, control, cause, character and purpose driven behavior, the fruits of the spirit Galatians 5:22-23 .

“If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.” 2 Corinthians 5:17.

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Proverbs 29:11 "A fool vents all his feelings, But a wise man holds them back."

Romans 12:2: Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.

2 Corinthians 12-9:“My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.”

John 14:16: "He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever—"

Philippians 2:13: "for it is God who works in you both to will and to do for His good pleasure."

Galatians 5:22-23 "the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.

Ephesians 4:22-23 "...put away the old person you used to be. Have nothing to do with your old sinful life. It was sinful because of being fooled into following bad desires. Let your minds and hearts be made new."

Life is about finding Purpose. When you have a, "Global Purpose," in life, healthy direct assertive thinking and behavior follow.

Change your thinking, change your life!

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